Lesson 4 of 6 · 9 min
When God Seems Silent
Unanswered prayer, dry seasons, and what faith looks like without feelings.
The kinds of answer
Christians often say God answers yes, no, or not yet. That is true but too neat when you are the one waiting. Paul asked three times for a thorn to be removed and was told no, with a reason he would not have chosen.
Dry seasons are normal
Long stretches with no sense of God's presence are described throughout Christian history. They are not proof of failure or unbelief. Feelings follow attention, health, sleep and season as much as they follow faith.
In those seasons, keep the practices going: read, pray the psalms, show up to church. Habits carry you when emotion cannot.
Lament is prayer too
A third of the psalms are complaints — some furious, some hopeless, one ending in darkness with no resolution. God kept them in the book, which means you are allowed to pray them.
Key passages
Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this... But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you.'
2 Corinthians 12:8-9
How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever?
Psalm 13:1
He told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart.
Luke 18:1
Reflect
What have you stopped praying for because it felt pointless?
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Where this came from
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- [1]The Holy Bible — Blue Letter Bible interlinear and lexicons
Primary source for every lesson; Strong's and BDB/Thayer entries for word studies.
- [2]The Nicene-Constantinopolitan Creed (381) — full text and history, Britannica
The doctrinal frame for the lessons on God, Christ and the Spirit.
- [3]N. T. Wright, lectures and articles archive (NTWrightPage)
New Testament scholarship drawn on for the gospel, kingdom and resurrection lessons.
- [4]Catechism of the Catholic Church (Vatican) and the Westminster Confession of Faith
Consulted side by side wherever a lesson describes how different traditions teach a doctrine.